Meet Your Coach

Hey, I’m Tess. I’m here to help men bridge the gap in their relationships.

As a coach, I’ve seen firsthand how much women crave emotional connection, maturity, and attunement from their partners. On the flip side, I’ve heard from many men who want to show up better but don’t know how. That’s where I come in.

I’m not about lectures or fluffy self-help clichés. My coaching style is real, direct, and focused on practical results. We’ll work on understanding your emotional landscape, fine-tuning your communication skills, and figuring out how you can show up in your relationship—all while helping you stay grounded in your own sense of self.

Here’s the thing: showing up better in your relationship isn’t about becoming someone you’re not. It’s about understanding yourself more deeply, building confidence in your emotional presence, and creating a dynamic that makes both of you feel valued and connected.

When I’m not coaching, you’ll find me exploring the outdoors, reading, going on dates with my girlfriend, laughing at my own jokes, or diving into conversations about life and relationships. I bring that same energy, curiosity, and levity into my work with clients—because building stronger relationships doesn’t have to feel like a chore.

So, I’m ready when you are.

FAQs

  • That’s exactly why I offer a free first session. This is a no-pressure conversation to explore your challenges and see if we’re a good fit. You don’t have to commit—just come with an open mind and see what feels right for you.

  • Each session is tailored to your needs, but generally, we’ll explore what’s going on in your relationships, patterns that may be holding you back, and practical tools to help you move forward with confidence. It’s a mix of deep reflection, skill-building, and actionable steps to create real change.

  • No! Whether you're currently in a relationship, dating, or simply wanting to understand yourself better, coaching can help you develop the skills and confidence to show up in the way you want—both for yourself and future relationships.

  • You don’t need to be an expert at talking about emotions—I’ll guide you through the process in a way that feels comfortable. My approach is practical and focused on what actually helps, not just talking for the sake of it.

  • This depends on your goals. Some clients get what they need in just a few sessions, while others prefer ongoing support. In our first call, we’ll figure out a plan that works best for you.

  • No, coaching is different from therapy. While therapy often focuses on healing past trauma, coaching is more action-oriented, helping you develop new skills and perspectives to improve your relationships and confidence in the present. That said, we do explore your past as a way to understand how it’s shaping your decisions and patterns today, empowering you to make more intentional choices moving forward.

  • You can book a free consultation by clicking [here]. If you’re unsure, feel free to send me a message—I’m happy to answer any questions before you commit.

Ready to build the confidence and clarity you need to move forward? Let’s talk.