Reclaim Yourself

with True Relations Coaching.

Silence the Noise & Embrace Your Truth.

I guide people who’ve spent too long living in roles, expectations, and survival mode find their way back to their own voice. My work is for the ones who’ve kept it all together, who’ve said “yes” when they meant “no,” and who are ready to stop disappearing in other people’s stories. This is about reclaiming the truth that lives in your body, your words, your wants — and learning to trust it again. Gently, fully, and unapologetically.

woman reclaiming herself

12 Week Coaching Program.

A lot of us end up chasing things we never actually chose. We follow the rules, check the boxes, and try to be who we should be—only to look up one day and wonder: what do I even want?

This 12-week journey is about pressing pause on all the noise—the pressure, the expectations, the constant doing—and getting quiet enough to hear what’s actually yours. Your voice. Your wants. Your truth.

We’ll start to peel back the layers that have built up over time—the fear, the doubt, the patterns that kept you small—and uncover the parts of you that got buried along the way. This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about coming home to who you’ve always been. And I’ll be right there with you as you do.

    • 12 Weekly 1:1 Coaching Callson Zoom– Deep, honest conversations where we do the real work.

    • Guided Journaling & Exercises – Prompts and tools to help you dig deeper between sessions.

    • Support Between Sessions – You won’t be left on your own—I'll be here to help you process, question, and stay with it.

    • Designed for you—After our initial call, we’ll shape the program around your specific needs. While I work with common themes, how we navigate them will depend on your journey.

  • This Program is Right for You If:

    • You feel like there’s more to life than what you're currently experiencing but don’t know how to break free from limiting patterns that keep you stuck.

    • You’ve spent too much time trying to meet others' expectations or please people, causing you to lose touch with what you truly want in life.

    • You’re tired of empty motivation and are looking for genuine, honest support to face the truth and make empowered decisions that align with who you really are.

Free Resource

I’m Tess—your coach and your guide on this journey back to self.

I know what it’s like to live a life that looks fine from the outside but feels off on the inside. I spent years shaping myself around what other people needed—saying the right things, playing the part—until I couldn’t tell what was mine anymore. My voice got quiet. My truth got buried under fear, pressure, and old patterns that once kept me safe but eventually kept me stuck.

What changed everything wasn’t pushing harder or becoming a shinier version of myself. It was slowing down. Getting honest. Letting myself be supported. And learning how to listen to the parts of me I’d been overriding for years.

That’s what this work is about. I’m not here to hand you a formula or fix you. I’m here to help you come back to what’s already true inside you—and to walk with you while you figure out what that means for your life now. I’ll hold space for all of it: the truth you’re just starting to hear, the patterns you’re ready to shift, and the accountability you need to follow through. I see through the surface, and I’ll reflect back the parts of you that are ready to be seen.

It’s not always comfortable. But it’s real. And it’s worth it.

  • I value Tess's skillful and intuitive way of working. The psychological space she provides is non-judgemental, creative and secure. With her gentle guidance I’m able to take myself deep into my psyche and gain benefit from the insights that come bubbling to the surface.

    CAROLYN M. (WRITER)

  • I had the pleasure of receiving coaching while working through old patterns. She is an embodied listener and asks deeply resonate questions that allows me to come to my authentic truth and self. Tess is so easy to open up to and almost every time leaves me in a state of laughter; even with the heavy patterns rearing their heads. I highly recommend working with Tess!

    KARA M. (ACUPUNCTURIST AT WELLSPRING)

  • Tess was my first experience of what it means to be truly heard. Even when it comes to the darkest, hardest, most vulnerable things, like my divorce, a suicide in my family, feeling shame, you name it. I have worked through the ups and downs turning to her for support, compassion, acknowledgement, validation, and release.

    LEAH M. (FOUNDER OF LIFEREMADE)

Q & A

For Q & A specifically about the program, check out the program details page.

  • That’s exactly why I offer a free 20 min discovery call. This is a no-pressure conversation to explore your challenges and see if we’re a good fit. You don’t have to commit—just come with an open mind and see what feels right for you.

  • All coaching sessions are done online via Zoom.

  • Therapy often focuses on healing the past. This work is about the present and future—looking at where you are now, what’s keeping you stuck, and how to move forward in a way that feels real to you. Both have their place, but this is about action.

  • Yes, I do offer single sessions. However, they won’t have the same structured progression as the full program. A single session can be great if you need clarity on a specific issue or just want to get a feel for the work, but the deeper shifts happen through the momentum of the full program. We can discuss what’s best for you during our Discovery Call.

  • After you book, you’ll receive a confirmation email with a link to our call. I’ll ask you to fill out a brief questionnaire before we meet, so I can understand where you’re at and what you hope to achieve. The call itself is a chance for us to connect and figure out if this program is the right fit.

Ready to release what no longer serves and start living more true to yourself? Let’s talk.